Principal
Rules of Feminine Interaction...
And
A Problem
“Simon
Peter said to them [incredibly;
and downright stunning
in its viciousness and
misogyny. How could
any man who says such a thing have any
understanding at all of
the Teaching of Jesus?], ‘Let
Mary leave us, for women are not worthy of life.’
Jesus
said [lamely
in
her ‘defense’;
but better late (not really) than never],
‘I myself shall lead her [lame], in order to make her male [lame],
so that she too may become a living spirit [lame] resembling you
males [lame]. For every woman who will make herself male will enter
the kingdom of heaven’[lame, lame and lame].”
Saying
#114 (the last
saying)
of the
Gospel
of Thomas
(The
sequence
of these Sayings having been decided upon by whom?
The
male
apostle Thomas, of course.)
“She
is frequently kind and she’s
suddenly cruel.
She
can do as she pleases, she’s nobody’s fool.”
Billy Joel
She’s
Always A Woman To Me
As I have previously explained—or
‘mansplained’,
depending upon attitude and perspective—women typically establish
continuity of consciousness on the basis of in-the-moment experiences
of a “self”, whereas men typically establish continuity of
consciousness on the basis of (usually, although there are
exceptions) carefully considered thoughts of a ‘thinker’. And, at
the same time, a principal value of women is in the maintaining of
societal interactions and relationships, whereas a principal value of
men is in isolation.
And
now we have a problem.
Women
are often demeaned, and often experience instances of insult,
offense, and either intentional or unintentional viciousness and
misogyny in their relationships with men as well as with women.
And
how do they respond?
Typically,
they are so taken aback, so startled, so intensely hurt that they are
incapable of saying anything at all; and it is not until hours or
even days later that they are finally
able to think of an appropriate response to the person who has deeply
wounded them.
But
what do they do then?
Typically
nothing.
Living
in the momentary experiences of a “self”—and with their
principal value being the maintaining of societal interactions and
relationships, even with those who have wounded them so deeply—their
default mechanism is to ‘forgive and forget’ and to ‘let
bygones be bygones’; in addition to which they have been
conditioned to think that it is not ‘lady-like’ to respond hours
or days later to such affronts to their dignity, or even much deeper
wounds to their “self”, because the ‘time has passed’.
(But
the reality—the simple fact
of the matter—is that ‘the time has
not
passed’ at
all.
They still
retain
an often wordless memory of having been deeply wounded in that
interaction.)
The
consequence of which is that, in another few hours, or days, or next
week, they will again
be demeaned or wounded; they will again
be unable to respond appropriately or at all; they will again be
required to suffer
those indignities and wounds to their “self” for the sake of
preserving societal interactions and relationships even with those
who have wounded them.
The
consequence of which they then create an image of themselves as
always
being wounded in interpersonal relationships, and as always
being bereft of any power.
The
consequence of which is that they become completely hopeless
in such interactions;
while,
at the same time, being required to
maintain them.
But
then her husband, for example, says something to her that is
unintentionally
demeaning—unintentional because his wife has
never
told him that it is demeaning; in order, of course, to preserve
her relationship with her husband...
And
it is ‘Armageddon’.
She
immediately ‘goes to general quarters’ and responds with a
veritable
tsunami
or daisy-chain of previous negative experiences she has had with her
husband going back days, weeks, years, or even decades.
[The
husband’s best response in such situations, of course, is silence;
to think very
carefully over the next 24-48 hours (quotations of precisely
what
his wife said are of crucial
significance here, because she will often forget or disremember what
she actually said)
how to attack
his
wife with the thoughts of a ‘thinker’ (with respect to which his
wife has, of course,
no
defense), and during the thinking of which thoughts the blood will leave his face...
And not to tell his wife any of those thoughts; but, rather, to stand back and explain their interaction, not from the perspective of his consciousness of “self” and ‘thinker’; but, rather, from the perspective of the “observing consciousness”.)
And not to tell his wife any of those thoughts; but, rather, to stand back and explain their interaction, not from the perspective of his consciousness of “self” and ‘thinker’; but, rather, from the perspective of the “observing consciousness”.)
Any
further explanation to either men or women is best conveyed in an
oral (interactive) teaching.
Michael Joseph Cecil (Chapter 12, verse 1 of the Book of Daniel, Sura 2, verses 97-98 & 285 of the Quran, Column XVII of the Scroll of the War of the Sons of Light & Chapter 3, verse 12 of the Revelation of John) and:
Sarah-->Elijah-->Daniel-->John the Baptist-->Mohammed-->Elizabeth Anne Cecil (Chapter 12, verse 13 of the Book of Daniel and Chapter 11, verse 14 & Chapter 17, verses 10-13 of the Gospel of Matthew) (1987) (7th Church) for:
Isaiah’s wife-->the apostle James-->Kimberly (2000- (3rd Church)
Sarah-->Elijah-->Daniel-->John the Baptist-->Mohammed-->Elizabeth Anne Cecil (Chapter 12, verse 13 of the Book of Daniel and Chapter 11, verse 14 & Chapter 17, verses 10-13 of the Gospel of Matthew) (1987) (7th Church) for:
Hagar-->the apostle Mary-->Danielle (1982-1987) (6th Church)
(March, 1987—http://apod.nasa.gov/apod/ap960705.html )
Isaac-->the apostle John-->Robin (1986) (4th Church)
Ishmael-->the apostle Peter-->Cindy (1992) (5th Church)
Jacob-->the apostle Thomas-->Linda (1987- (2nd Church)
Esau-->the apostle, Judas-->Susan (1970) (1st Church)
Isaiah’s wife-->the apostle James-->Kimberly (2000- (3rd Church)
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